No reason to stir anything. Just consider it a "joke" in rather poor taste, particularly as my Sister, who you obviously do not know, is about to go through a life threatening situation.
I did ask the Moderators at the start of this Forum to ensure that comments about people or families should be dealt with very strictly as there was far too much personality assassination on Craig's Forum and also Oscar's Blog in past times.
I would also have thought that your comment "only a joke" could maybe have been an apology, However knowing who you are, and being aware of your reputation, it was possibly too much to expect!
And I don't give a toss if the Moderators delete this post and kick me off the Forum, because I have another on the side lines waiting to take off!!!!
Dutchy